Friday, April 18, 2014

Coming Home

When we found out on Tuesday afternoon we would be leaving, we got back to the hotel and called Southwest. Again, we had to explain the situation because being SO last minute the flights were much more expensive. We were trying to fly home sometime on Wednesday. The rep at Southwest was so kind and he was able to adjust the airfare on one flight.

The catch? It took off at 5:35 AM. We were an hour and 10 minutes away from the airport, and we had to return a rental car when we got there.  Needless to say, we tried to get as much sleep as possible, got up at 2:15, and hit the road at 3. We plugged the address of the airport into my phone and it said it would take us 1 hour and 30 minutes to get there.... Not good. Mom drove fast and got us there in record time.

I wish I had gotten a picture of what we had to do when we got to the airport. It was CRAZY. The rental car counters were not yet opened, so we had to park the car ourselves. We had 3 suitcases, one backpack, a 2 yr old in a stroller, and a car seat in a backpack carrier. Only two of us. Oh my word, I cannot imagine how we looked. We were sprinting across the parking lot, weaving through construction zones, and trying not to collapse. I had the backpack, a suitcase, and was pushing the stroller. Mom had two suitcases and the carseat strapped on her back! We had to go at least a mile before we reached the rental car counter. We got there, then had to continue into the airport with the luggage. Another 1/2 mile at least.

When we reached the Southwest counter, I tried to walk away after the rep had weighed our bags. She said, "No ma'am, you have to take your suitcases to those security guys over there so they can run them through the machine". Mom and I just died laughing because we were so tired I am sure we both thought about abandoning our luggage and just leaving it there.

We then had to go through security ourselves. At this point it was probably 4:30. We both had water bottles in our purses, which we completely forgot about. We also had packed apple sauce in the backpack for Addy in those squeezy containers. Apparently, those are frowned upon as are water bottles. We got pulled aside and they dumped every. single. thing. out of our purses and backpack. They patted us down, and they even squeezed my ponytail! Again, we just laughed. We were too tired to care.

We finally made it to our gate and sat down for about 5 minutes before we had to board.

 See ya in a few weeks, Minneapolis!
 Sweet silly girl at 5:30 am!

                                                                            
It was actually a pretty bumpy ride from Minneapolis to Chicago. When we got up in the clouds it started snowing and icing pretty bad. It was really pretty to look at, but it was also pretty rough flying in it.




Back in Chicago!
 
 We got back in Nashville at 9am! What a whirlwind of a morning. My dad picked us up at the airport while David was in court. I realized that I didn't have my keys to get in our house, but luckily he made it out of court and home about 5 minutes after we got there. I had started unloading our luggage and setting it at the front door. When he got there, Addy and I went straight to my bed. We laid down and did not move for almost 5 hours. He said by the time he had the luggage in the house we were both out. I guess that's what happens when you experience the worse exhaustion you've ever felt!

Yesterday, we went and got our sweet girl Ella from Alabama! Oh, how we missed her.
We are so happy to be home and back together for 2 weeks before we hit the road again. Mayo called today and we fly back out on May 4th. We will be there until Saturday the 10th. David is making the next trip with us. We are anxious to get there and hear what they can figure out about her! 

We will keep you posted on our next trip!

Laura

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

*Days 1 and 2*

When flying with a 2 year old, you never really know what you're going to experience. Luckily for us, she was PERFECT. Like did-not-make-a-peep, sat-completely-still, is-she-breathing perfect. It made traveling so easy.


Right after boarding her first flight! She was so excited :)

  
It was stormy on the way to Chicago.... dark clouds the whole way there.

Perfect weather from Chicago to Minneapolis!

 Just too cute not to share!

We landed in Minneapolis and headed straight to Rochester. It took right at an hour, and our hotel was wonderful to let us check in two hours early. (Plug - if you are ever in Rochester, the Hampton Inn North is SO nice! It's clean, comfy, and they have such a friendly staff. We will definitely stay here again!)  After checking in, we hit the road to tour downtown Rochester. We were trying to figure out how to get to the clinic, but it is confusing!! Thankfully, our wonderful hotel offers a shuttle to and from the clinic.
Mayo Clinic - this is the main clinic, but there are MANY others around downtown. Mayo employs 40,000 people!

Nana taught Addy how to do a stink eye! It is pretty cute!

We went to bed early to get ready for a busy Tuesday, and we are thankful for that now. We had to be at the clinic at 11:15 for a chest x-ray. We got there early because we still felt lost, and they had us in and out before the appointment was scheduled. Seriously, love this place! Our next appointment was with Addy's primary pulmonologist here, Dr. Baughn. She is amazing. The appointment with her lasted almost 1 1/2 hours. We reviewed and discussed every aspect of Addy's health. 

She decided Addy needs to be seen by the Aerodigestive Clinic. This is a 5 day clinic that is done by 6 specialists. It starts on a Monday and you are done on Friday afternoon. There are lots of appointments, meetings, and Wednesday of that week is the OR day. She will be put to sleep for a few procedures, and she will be admitted overnight for observation for a couple other things. It is intense, and I am sure it will be exhausting. But it gives us hope - hope for an answer, a diagnosis, and hope for a healthy future for Addy. 

BUT - we are here on a Tuesday, the clinic started yesterday, and it is full for a few weeks. So, we are going home tomorrow! But we are coming back in a few weeks. We don't know exactly when yet. We will find out tomorrow for sure, but it looks like it will be in May. We will start the process then. We met with the nurse today and did the pre-admission for that. While it's not great that we flew here only to go home and then come back again, we are thankful because her doctor already got to see her healthy. She knows what she looks like on a good day. She was happy she got to see her, and the team will already begin looking at medical records and diagnostic images from her past. They will know every thing about her history when we come back. So it's all good. 

We are so thankful to each one of you that have covered Addy in your prayers. Please don't stop. There is still a ways to go. And now another trip to plan. And we cannot thank you enough to those who made this trip possible. It means so much, and we are sincerely blown away by you guys. We fly out (very) early tomorrow morning and land in Nashville when some people are still sleeping! 

See y'all soon!

Laura

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

T-Minus 5 Days to Mayo

photo by JMcKnight Photography
 
8 days ago, we made the decision to call Mayo Clinic. We had no clue how we would get there, much less be able to afford the hotel, food, rental car, and missing work. But we knew God would work out the details.

My mom sent an email to our wonderful church family, and she created a YouCaring page so people
could help if they wanted. Immediately, donations started coming in. Every day since, we check the website and our mail to find another gift of love that has been sent. Two words sum up how we feel -
 
loved & overwhelmed
 
Airline tickets were provided the day after we posted about our trip. Over and over again God has confirmed to us that we are supposed to be taking her to Mayo. This trip has His hand all over it. Only God could have gotten her in so quickly with the doctors there.
 
 
A couple days after booking the airline tickets, my request to create Addy an online patient portal through Mayo was accepted. It was a little bit tricky since she is 2. I had to create a fake patient portal for myself, and then send in a request to be her proxy. It took a day or so to get through that system. When I got the email telling me I could access her account, which includes upcoming appointments, I decided to double check her appointment. The first thing I noticed was they had added an appointment before her initial visit for a chest x-ray. (THIS is why I already love Mayo. The x-ray will be read and sent to the pulmonologist before he ever sees Addy.) There was only one problem. We are flying into Minneapolis and then driving to Rochester. It's about an hour drive. The plan was to fly in on Tuesday morning, the 15th. Our flight landed at 11:05, and her first appointment was supposed to be at 1:30 pm. But the chest x-ray was scheduled after the flights were booked. Time of the x-ray: 11:15. Exactly 10 minutes after we land.
 
Cue: panic mode. I immediately called Southwest and explained our situation. The rep said she understood, but unfortunately no exceptions could be made to the rate. The rate to fly in on Monday was 3x the price it was to fly on Tuesday - times 3 flights. I had to call our friend who donated the flights to get some information so I could change the flights. We had no choice to change them. Flying in on Tuesday was just not an option. We were just going to pay the difference. I called back to Southwest and spoke to a different rep who after hearing our story adjusted the fare to reflect Tuesday's price. She saved us $600. I am not going to lie, I cried.
 
We decided to open a separate bank account for the money that has been generously given to us to help with these expenses so it does not get mixed in with our day to day money. While sitting at the bank, we had about 100 other places we needed to be. We were called into a lady's office, and we explained to her why we were opening a separate account. She said her nephew was seen very recently at Mayo in Minnesota. He had a heart issue that no other dr would touch. Mayo accepted him, and he is healed. She looked me right in the eyes and said she would be covering Addy in prayer. I had tears in my eyes when we left, because God put her in my path. It has given us such a peace about everything.
 
We have been told of Addy being added to church prayer lists all over the place. It is unbelievable to know that so many people are praying for your child. Thank you is just not enough, but it's the only words I have. We fly out of Nashville Monday morning, and we will be at Mayo on Tuesday for our first appointment. Every day the blog will be updated, so keep checking back to get updates on our sweet girl! Keep praying, because the prayers are working :)
 
photo by JMcKnight Photography
 
 
Laura

Friday, April 4, 2014

Background on our Addy

For our upcoming trip to Mayo Clinic, we are planning on keeping everyone updated through this blog. Who knew I even had it? :) I felt like it would be a good idea to give everyone an explanation of why we are headed to Mayo and tell a little of what Addy has been through.

**Disclaimer - this is a long post, so you can skim if you want. This is also so we can show her what a testimony she has when she gets older! **

When Addy was 3 months old, she got sick for the first time. It landed us at Vanderbilt Children's ER. This is where her story starts....

Addy and her Daddy. This is in the middle of a swat call out. He left and came to the hospital to be with us, and we took him back to the call when she was discharged.
 
 
That visit was not as eventful as others to come, although we were pretty scared. She was given a breathing treatment, a shot of Rocephin, had a chest x-ray, and we were sent on our way. Diagnosis : pneumonia.
 
 
Four weeks later, she started getting sick again (high fevers, wheezing in her chest, horrible cough). We went back to our pediatrician, and he sent us straight to Vandy ER again.
 
 
Even though she is all smiles (and cuteness), she was pretty sick again.
 
The details of this visit are not as clear, although we do know they did another chest x-ray. She was also given a shot of Rocephin again. Diagnosis : RSV.
 
 
We were sent home, and guess what? Fever spiked during the night along with labored breathing landed us right back at the Vandy ER the next day.
 
Our brave girl doing her breathing treatment so well :)
 
This visit lasted longer than the day before, although we still felt a little bit like we were rushed out the door. Her diagnosis remained the same, RSV. I have no pictures to document the next event, which was 3 days later (David's birthday!). She was once again sent to the hospital. FINALLY, she was admitted for overnight observation and IV antibiotics (Rocephin again). Although we didn't feel she needed to be sent home the next day, we were discharged to follow up with our pediatrician. Diagnosis : Pneumonia.
 
 
During her follow-up at her pediatrician. She quickly became accustomed to the neb and rarely fought it anymore.
 
 
So here we are, Addy is now 6 months old. That's right! By the time she was 6 months old, she had been diagnosed with pneumonia twice and RSV once. I know for sure there was also a diagnosis of bronchiolitis in there somewhere, too. I don't have any pictures though, so it's hard to remember where it fell.
 
Over the course of the following months, she stayed mostly healthy. We did have one more diagnosis of pneumonia in May of 2012 (10 months old) that I found while going over her medical records. No pictures of that one either.
 
Fast forward to September, 2012...
This one melts my heart <3
 
One morning out of the blue she started running a high fever. We went to her pediatrician's office. We were told she had a virus, and she just needed rest and fluids. Until two days later.....
 
 
Cutest Vanderbilt patient I've ever seen
 

She was admitted for very low pulse ox (and labored breathing), high fever, and after taking a chest x-ray.... Pneumonia.  She was given an IV of antibiotics (Rocephin), and we were kept overnight. They sent us home the next morning on antibiotics and to check up with her dr.
We are getting good at neb treatment selfies, huh?
 
We followed up with her pediatrician a few days later, and she still had a bad case of pneumonia. The antibiotics were not working, so we went back to the ER.  We were not admitted, but the (new) chest x-ray the took showed the pneumonia was not any better from the visit the week before.
 
It was at this point that our pediatrician said she had a lung issue that needed to be treated by a specialist at Vanderbilt. We were so happy to finally feel like we were on the right track to getting her healthy. We had to wait a few weeks to be seen, and in the meantime her pediatrician scheduled a sweat chloride test. I had no clue what that meant, but off to Vandy we went. It was a weird procedure, but as we were walking in the door the sign said CF testing room. Cystic Fibrosis?! I couldn't even think straight. Again, thankfully the test came back clear. She was not even close to being borderline for additional testing.
 
The first visit with her pulmonologist had a diagnosis : Broncheotracheomalaycia (spelling??). We were told she had a floppy airway, and she was aspirating liquids. They scheduled a swallow study, and she failed. This confirmed the diagnosis, and the pulmonologist scheduled a surgery to go in and fix it (if he could). He also brought in an ENT to see if there were any noticeable issues he could find while they were in surgery.
 
Surgery day! Yes, she wore her bow to surgery!
 
Lovin' on Nana after coming out of anesthesia :)
 
She did great in the surgery, but they didn't find anything to fix. For about four months, we thickened her liquids to the consistency of honey. This would prevent her from aspirating again and hopefully allow her lungs to heal. She passed a swallow study about 4 moths after her surgery, so we were told to stop thickening after weaning her off of it for about 2 weeks.
 
During the thickening stage, her pulmonologist ordered a brain CT to show if she had a mass on her brain or a deformity that was misfiring the signals in her brain on how to swallow. Thank the Lord, her CT came back clear...
Waiting on the anesthesiologist to come in to get her....
 
Post CT scan and waking up grumpy!
 
At this point, Addy went about 4 1/2 months without any sickness. Until April, she started running a fever again.
Notice her rosy little cheeks... Bless it.
 
Once again, I can't remember the exact details of this one, as they all run together. But I do remember this. Diagnosis: pneumonia. It was confirmed through a chest x-ray at Vanderbilt. We did all the follow ups with our pediatrician and about a week or two later, he said she was great. Her lungs were clear with no pneumonia.
 
 
We are now in June 2013 and Addy is 23 months old. We went to a family reunion for my Mom's side of the family (Owens family). That morning she didn't feel good. We could tell, but we thought we would try to make it to the reunion and see how she did. Being the uber-prepared momma that I am (haha), I brought our thermometer, pulse ox meter, and meds with us. When we got there, she was not breathing great. She had obviously gotten worse over the ride there. We didn't see a need to go straight to Vandy at that point. We gave her motrin, albuterol, and flovent (both are steroid-inhalers). She perked up a little bit, so we felt ok to go home. On the way home, I knew something was not right. I leaned over the seat, checked her pulse ox, and it was 77 (normal is 93 and above...anything below 92 is dangerous, especially for her). We were pulling in the driveway when that happened. We ran inside, grabbed a few things for Ella, and flew out the driveway. Mom and Dad met us and got Ella, and we hauled it to Vandy.
 
This was our view of her in the ER.... Such a sick baby :(
(This picture is still hard for me to look at)
 


After being in the ER a few hours, they began a constant breathing treatment of saline called a hypertonic breathing treatment. While doing this, we asked if we were being admitted. The nurse laughed and said, "We are trying to decide if she is stable enough to go to a normal room. Right now we are leaning towards the ICU." Holy moly......... I am pretty sure it was around midnight when we heard that. We were exhausted, emotional, and scared to death. I literally broke down... It was the hardest night of my life. Thank goodness she improved enough to be put in a normal room. (Yes, diagnosis was pneumonia).

The next morning...worn out, on oxygen, and beautiful.
 
 
Paging Dr. Addy :)


Uncle J came to see her while we were there
 
She had lots of visitors! Such a loved girl!

Probably her favorite visitor, her sissy.
 
We were in patient for 8 days... I have never been so worried. She had a lot of trouble regulating her oxygen at night, which is why we were there so long. During the day she was ok, so in the pictures above you can see the little circle things on her face but no oxygen hooked to them. During naps and at bedtime, her oxygen would fall to the low 80's and she would require the support of oxygen throughout the night. At one point, we were told we were being discharged with oxygen tanks to use at home. Overwhelmed. David and I stood there listening to them going over the instructions and requirements, and I am 99% sure I didn't hear one single word they said. All I could think was that she was not going home on oxygen. I knew we were being sent home too soon (this was about day 5). Her pulmonologist found out the drs in the hospital were planning on discharging her, and he stopped the discharge papers. We stayed three more days, the meds were changed, more x-rays were taken, another swallow study performed (passed), and then we were sent home with no oxygen support.
 
We knew at that point that whatever we thought we were doing right in regards to keeping her from getting sick again was not working (clearly). So back to the drawing board. We had more visits with the pulmonologist, and his next step was blood work. They drew quite a bit of blood, and our little trooper took it really well. It was sent to immunology, and it came back clear, too. No answers there. So we were waiting to hear the next step when.....
 
In the ER, fever of 104
 
September came and back in the ER we went. Chest x-ray, rocephin shot, and lots of fluids later we were discharged. Diagnosis: bilateral pneumonia. Ugh. Major frustration started setting in at this point (more than usual). 
 
On to October where we found ourselves with a sick little one once again....
Weak eyes and feverish cheeks :(
 

 

 

This time we did not end up in Vanderbilt, but she stayed sick for a couple of weeks. We met with pulmonary and ENT again. They scheduled an MRI of her lungs that was 3-dimensional. She had to be put to sleep again for this so they could fully manipulate her lungs. This was done in October.

 Vanderbilt lets you color on your sheets while you wait to be taken to your procedure. They both loved it!
 
The MRI showed quite a bit of scar tissue built up in both lungs. There was a big concern about it, but then we were later told there was not nearly as much as they had thought.
 
 
From here, they scheduled us with a GI Dr. to look at the possibility that she may have reflux. She was already taking Zantac 2xday and they added Prilosec in September. After meeting with GI, he, the pulmonary dr. and the ENT decided to do another surgery to see what they could find. It was done in December.
She is the cutest doctor I have ever seen!
 
During the surgery, GI put an impedence probe in that she had to wear for 24 hours. She was supposed to eat and drink like normal, which is hard with a wire running up your nose and down your throat. She did great with it though.
She really didn't want her picture made, and she was furious after waking up from anesthesia. But it was too cute to pass up.
 
 The probe showed traces of reflex even while she was on the meds twice a day. So we were told she had reflux and to keep her on the medicine indefinitely. It was the key to keeping her healthy.
 
For 6 months, she stayed healthy! We thought we had figured out the puzzle, and we were past the worst of it. At the end of March, my brother got married in Gatlinburg. While we were there, she started getting sick: high fever, wheezing, labored breathing, etc. We had all the supplies with us, so we started the sick regimen we have. We got home and took her to the pediatrician. She was diagnosed with a chest cold. She got a shot and oral antibiotics to try to ward off pneumonia setting in. Three days later, I got home from work and her fever was near 105. Her pulse ox was 80. David was at work, so I grabbed the girls and ran out the door after motrin and an albuterol puff. I dropped Ella off with my friend and we drove like crazy to the drs office. They got her back and watched her breathe, and they felt like the albuterol opened her up enough that we were safe to drive to Vandy and not go by ambulance. We got to the ER, another chest x-ray was done, and guess what? Diagnosis: Pneumonia. :(
Nana makes it all better :)


She had just gotten her IV in (after two attempts)
 



After being admitted Saturday, they sent us home Sunday. The ER doctors refused to communicate with her pulmonologist. They told us Sunday she sounded much better, so we could leave. Although, we never saw the same dr twice so I am still unsure what they were comparing it to. Overall, Vanderbilt has done a great job of treating her symptoms and getting her over it again and again. But we need to know WHY.
 
 
We have been completely overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and support we have received. There are no words to adequately thank you all for loving our girl and helping her get to Mayo. We didn't know how we would get her there, but you all have made it possible. David and I asked God to show us if this is what we needed to do. Over and over again He has shown this is where she needs to go. We fly out on Monday, April 14. Her first appointments are on Tuesday the 15th. Please pray that Mayo can find the cause and we can get this taken care of.
 
 
We will keep you all updated on this blog every day to let you know what we are finding out while in the clinic.
 
 
We love you all,
 
 
David and Laura